The Sensation Only Touch Can Bring

By Ray Timmons

Imagine the following scenario: John takes Jane on a date. The night is loaded with tons of excellent conversation and some fun activity, but they never touch. John feels that he must be a gentleman and believes that gentlemen keep their hands off.

What a night Jane thought. I hope John will kiss me. John walks Jane to her front door, looks deeply into her eyes, says good night, and then walks away. Jane thinks to herself too bad. John forgot to do the most important thing that most men forget to do; gradually touching a women throughout the night.

They end up half-heartedly hugging goodbye and as soon as she is out of sight John is slapping himself. He regrets not going for it.

The truth, that John and most men fail to recognize, is that most women love the touching and being touched from men.

John's fatal mistake was thinking a kiss could be their first physical contact, that would feel odd and unnatural. You are about to learn how to avoid John's errors and make that good night kiss feel smooth and natural...

Kino, otherwise known as touching, is the gradual physical contact between people. Proper kino, can make the difference between getting a kiss at the end of the night, or end up like John in the friend zone.

Women want to feel as though each casual encounter or relationship they have, happens easily. They want to feel as though each random encounter they had, that led to something significant, was the right thing to do.

What most men forget is that when women look for possible personal encounters with men, they must feel comfortable. Gradual touching can lead to a women becoming familiar with your touch and not feel as though your touch is awkward.

This is most commonly referred to as, "The Kino Ladder."

1. Beginning kino is the most important kino, because it starts off the whole process of kino escalation. Start with a quick touch to her arm. Remember kino is teasing with your hands, just like you tease her with your words.

2. Find moments where you connect in a conversation. These connections should be heightened with touching. If she laughs at your jokes, take a moment to playfully touch her in a non threatening manner.

3. Gradually build up to the kiss. A kiss should not come before a shoulder touch.

The Kino Ladder, is one of the best ways to overcome the touch barrier.

A) Build up to increased touch. Start with a quick hand grab, or a shoulder pat.

B) Take a moment to read her palm or give her a hand massage. Holding her hand builds comfort and make the moment seem genuine.

C) Once you have proven that you are an interesting person. Take a moment to watch her interaction with you. If she is giving you massive amounts of compliance, ask if you can take her away from her group. Tell her in private that you feel she is very special and continue building kino escalation.

D) Getting the girl alone is just beginning. A women that goes off with a man, usually means that shes trusts him subtly. When your alone with the girl take the opportunity to build greater kino.

E) Do a few more light and quick hand or shoulder touches.

Now that you gotten her alone and you have made her comfortable to your touch, its time to make your move. Use this Kino Ladder example to make women comfortable and respond to your touch in a positive manner.

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