Mentally, Man Have a Problem Calling After Promising They Will
We all have been frustrated by that promised call that never comes. Why would he say he would call and then not do it. The date was great, you were really compatible, and you were on your best behavior - so why won't he call after saying he would? Many time this will blow itself into feelings of rejection, second thoughts, and days of hurt feelings.
There can be various reasons why men don't call when they say they will. It can sometimes be as simple as being too busy at work, the extreme forgetfulness or in the worst case an intentional plan. Whatever the reasons, for a woman the whole situation can be quite unnerving and disastrous. Under extreme circumstances, the entire state of affairs can be very sad and even lead to breakups.
It is not always fair to be negative and get back to wrong conclusions. If your man doesn't call does not necessarily mean that he does not care for you. Any man who is doing so definitely has a reason for doing it. In rare cases, it is also seen that men are really busy at work and they are so engrossed in their occupation that the concept of calling his woman rests at the back of his mind. Though, this reason is not quite acceptable as he can always steal a minute from his busy schedule to give you a small call to avoid all misunderstandings.
Although we all profess to not want to game play; until you become secure in any relationship it is automatic. A man may intentionally not call after saying he will to determine your reaction. With this knowledge on his side he can determine his importance in your life. Men are sensitive creatures and use all their powers to defend their feelings until they have a complete sense of security. These tests are fine at the beginning of a relationship but if they persist it becomes unacceptable behavior and should be treated as such.
It is preferable that you do not show your restlessness to him by calling him again and again but this should not be taken to such an impersonal level that the man feels dejected leading to an unwanted breakup. If he calls later - after a week or so - without a reasonable explanation of this impolite behavior - is may be best to move on. If there was a understandable excuse for his not calling, forget it and see what happens going forward. Once or twice is understandable - more, rude and best to move to another man who will respect you.
There can be various reasons why men don't call when they say they will. It can sometimes be as simple as being too busy at work, the extreme forgetfulness or in the worst case an intentional plan. Whatever the reasons, for a woman the whole situation can be quite unnerving and disastrous. Under extreme circumstances, the entire state of affairs can be very sad and even lead to breakups.
It is not always fair to be negative and get back to wrong conclusions. If your man doesn't call does not necessarily mean that he does not care for you. Any man who is doing so definitely has a reason for doing it. In rare cases, it is also seen that men are really busy at work and they are so engrossed in their occupation that the concept of calling his woman rests at the back of his mind. Though, this reason is not quite acceptable as he can always steal a minute from his busy schedule to give you a small call to avoid all misunderstandings.
Although we all profess to not want to game play; until you become secure in any relationship it is automatic. A man may intentionally not call after saying he will to determine your reaction. With this knowledge on his side he can determine his importance in your life. Men are sensitive creatures and use all their powers to defend their feelings until they have a complete sense of security. These tests are fine at the beginning of a relationship but if they persist it becomes unacceptable behavior and should be treated as such.
It is preferable that you do not show your restlessness to him by calling him again and again but this should not be taken to such an impersonal level that the man feels dejected leading to an unwanted breakup. If he calls later - after a week or so - without a reasonable explanation of this impolite behavior - is may be best to move on. If there was a understandable excuse for his not calling, forget it and see what happens going forward. Once or twice is understandable - more, rude and best to move to another man who will respect you.
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