Land A Woman In A Club

By Bill Welemeyer

If you are thinking that a club is a place where you can spend a few minutes and walk out with a hot chick, you are kidding yourself. Just the same, the club is a great place to train for picking up girls. There you can practice your approach while enjoying some success. There are certainly other places where you can meet women: parks, beaches, various stores. And approaching women in these places is really quite a bit easier than doing so in a club, due to the fact that they will not be so on guard. When you choose to seek companionship in a club, you are making the choice that will present you with the greatest challenge and a smaller likelihood of success.

When a woman enters a club, she is ready mentally for what may go down. She understands that she may be approached by bunches of men and she knows how to turn away those who do not make a good first impression. Essentially, women in a club situation are on their guard from the minute they walk in the door. Given that, it is not such a good idea to make an outright attempt to pick them up. What the club environment IS good for, is learning what works when it comes to taking a woman home for the night.

Man, the club is, like, totally disorienting with all the cigarette smoke, the low lighting, and the phat sound system blaring away. Trying to chat up a chick is, like, not so easy. You have to get in her face (lean forward, Dude). But that's okay. If she don't dig you, you can lay back into the murk again, and get ready for your next charge. The "ambiance" will hide you, and God knows, the other clubbers won't even register you, much less be filling out a grade sheet on your performance. Pick up your testosterone level and get back on your horse, you got work to do.

Old man, don't be afraid to go to the club tonight and run into that skank who told you to take a hike last week. Not likely to happen, m'friend. You won't have to deal with her giving you the hippie stare and ruining the fishing in the pond. You better be hip to the fact that these clubber babes are into the status thing. If one of them treats you like four-day-old cod, then the other babies are going to pick up on it, then you will be chopped liver, Squidly. Just the way it is, Dude -- she is just keeping up appearances.

When you begin to practice your technique in the clubs, you will have some growing experiences as a "player". After dealing with rejection after rejection, you acquire a practiced method which will stand you in good stead trying to pick up a woman at a park, college, or supermarket. An added pre-clubbing benefit is researching conversation techniques from relationship sites online.

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